This week’s assignment has been an
eye opener. I have never been one to judge
people because of who they are, where they’ve come from, or their education
level. However this week I have seemed
to find that it is possible regardless of how much I want to retain that open
mind, I see bias rearing its ugly head.
The multicultural self-assessment was not surprising. I did as was instructed and was honest with
my answers. I have had to sit and do
some reflecting because to many I fit the ‘other’ category and while the
required readings and video links were of people from other nationalities, I am
a Caucasian, I have a decent education, however, I am finding that this too
poses some challenges. As a result of my
self-assessment, I plan on making several changes with me going forward by
creating a statement of counseling identity.
Summarize Multicultural Self Assessment
These
self-assessment that are provided are designed to enlighten the individual
responding to the questions asked only if they are answered honestly and
without bias. I came into this test on
Monday with anger and distrust and knew that my answers would be reflected by
my mood. I took the test anyway. Most were all one’s except a few where I felt
I was honest. After a few days of
‘calming’ down, I went back and took the same test again and the answers seemed
a bit more honest of my true self. In
order for me to be a successful mental health professional, I need to be able
to look past multi-cultural issues, and bias emotions so that I can make sound
judgments for those I encounter in therapy.
When I realized I Was “Other”
Growing
up I never felt that I was different; I had parents who loved me for the most
part, had a small handful of friends I spent time with, however I never seemed
to really fit in when it came to my immediate family. I had the traditional blonde hair and blue
eyes I was always dressed nicely, Mom spent hours on my clothes it seemed. I recall a group of classmates were sitting
on the stage in middle school and we were discussing families, and how one
young lady looked similar to her mom, and another looked like her aunt. Someone turned to me and said that I didn’t
look anything like my mom or my dad. I
looked and said to them "No, I don’t I am adopted.” One child responded with what your real mom
didn’t want you? That was the first time
I had heard someone say ‘real mom’ and not biological mom. For me Mama was my real mom, and Daddy was my
real dad. I had enough sense at 13 or 14
to be sort of mean back but I got my point across by saying unlike your family
that you were born into, I was hand picked to be with my family. From that day on, I have understood what
minorities feel like not to fit in, what some feel when they are abandoned, and
certainly what an adopted person is feeling.
Trying not to place people into that ‘other’ category is sometimes more
difficult than just saying I am not bias.
My Reaction
My
reaction to being other has shaped me, I have used it to become who I am
today. I push myself to not let those
who are being placed in the ‘other’ category feel they are there. I feel we are a human race; that silly coke
commercial from the 1970’s keeps popping in my where there are people standing
on a hillside singing they’d like to buy the world a coke; you see a young
blonde standing next to an African American, who is standing next to an Asian,
and so on we need to stand united and not divided.
On
the self-assessment part, I was shocked more at my first answers than the
second set of answers that I did. I have
always heard that you get someone mad or give them too much alcohol and the
truth will come out, that scared me that I can have those feelings going into
the profession I am wanting a degree in.
Actions Going Forward
I
think that I have some work to do, as most human being would say if they were
being honest with themselves on the assessment and they have a strong desire to
change. I need to really work on my
asking questions until I am clear so I can understand what is being said. I also want to work on being able to adapt to
change; both of which I scored one’s in.
I don’t like change I think that stems from my childhood, however if I
can accept change in me, then it will be easier for me to accept change in
other situations. Another improvement I would like to make is being more
social. I know this comes from my
childhood, and how I do not feel comfortable in new situations for fear of
being judged by others, or somehow receiving pity from the life that I
had. I view a lot of people as ‘not
good’ and let me explain that. I don’t
mean that everyone is a criminal or out to do wrong, I just generally have
reservations when it comes to folks who I let into my inner circle. I know that stems from bad adult
choices.
Statement of Counseling Identity
Looking for the
right words to put here can be challenging.
Using the examples provided I have found this defines my counseling
identity best.
As
multicultural our nation is, I accept that I will behave in a positive manner
and honor those who act in kind. I am dedicated
to helping those who face concerns in their lives regardless of ethnic
background, gender, mental or physical abilities, or education level. I am willing to guide clients based on his or
her goals, and pull their strengths out with them and make them shine. I vow to continue to seek knowledge though
meditation, and education for things I am yet to understand.
Importance of Multicultural Awareness in
Mental Health
One look at the United States and
one can see that our culture is becoming more and more diverse by the
moment. “In
urban centers, almost two-thirds of the students are neither European-American
nor middle-class” (Zion and Kozleski, 2005, p. 2). As the population continues to grow, wars
continue to battle on and the United States becomes a safe haven for those
seeking refuse, I will see beliefs, behaviors, values and customs that are
different from mine. I recognize after
this weeks reading that I will have to prepare myself with any one sitting
across from me in a counseling session.
I need to be abreast of characteristics and skills that will allow me to
be a proactive counselor. This week I
have been inspired to think outside of the box and seek new ways to bring
counseling to those of a different culture than mine.
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